Bring queer voices into your life.Ĭoming out can feel very lonely at first. If you feel unsafe, it's perfectly fine to wait it out. You're not being untrue to yourself if you are in a situation where self-preservation is necessary. If it's ever unsafe for you to be out, take that into consideration. Your safety means everything, and sometimes being out might make you feel like a target. Don't punish yourself for doing the legwork to figure out who you are. What your sexual orientation or gender identity feels like today might not be how it will feel in 1 year or 10 years. Things change and evolve as you grow, and that's 100% ok.
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21 LGBTQ Pride Flags and What They Stand ForĪnd, while we're on the topic, cut yourself a little slack in the coming out department, ok? Can you imagine if every feeling you had at the age of 12 became something that was set in stone? If that were true, you'd be a vet with a purple race car and a cabinet full of Sour Patch kids wondering how you got to this point in your life.
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You're going to come out so much in the course of your life (in college, on dates, when you meet new people, etc.), and each time you do, you get to define where you are with your identity in that moment. Your feelings might change, and they might not.Ĭoming out for the first time can feel so final, but it's actually not the end (it's just the beginning!).
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As long as you're listening to yourself, you can't go wrong. And ever since that day, there have been a million more steps as I've acquired more language to describe myself and my identity.
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"Am I gay?" It sounds like such a simple question, but finding the answer can be so much trickier than you might think.